Should You Have Children at Weddings?-Top tips from a Hertfordshire Wedding Photographer.
There’s no doubt in my mind that children at weddings add a little something extra. However, whether that’s your kind of something extra is a question only you can answer!
Children at weddings bring mischief, laughter, fun and a little unpredictability. Personally, I love to photograph it all.
Now, I know that children at weddings aren’t everyones cup of tea and that is fine. Many couples sigh a breath of relief when told that their little ones aren’t invited too. After all that’s a great excuse for a night off parenting isn’t it? And we all need that from time to time.
Let’s look at it from another point of view. Weddings are family affairs and kids are a huge part of many families. For some couples it would seem weird to leave them out. Similarly many couples planning their weddings already have children of their own.
Ultimately it’s your day so you need to be happy with whatever you choose. To help with your decision, here are a few hints and tips to bear in mind.
Choose a Venue that Welcomes Children to Weddings.
Choosing to have your ceremony and reception in the same venue means less stressful travel time concerns for parents. Similarly a venue with accommodation means that kids that need down time can have this away from the wedding party. Keeping tantrums in tiaras in check is a good thing. A venue with outside space helps, giving kids a bit of space to let off steam if they need to. Children at weddings need to let off steam!
Children at Weddings can be Noisy!
Churches echo, a lot. Even the smallest whimper can seem huge, and it’s always going to be right when you take your vows! Make sure that ushers know to sit parents with kids near the aisle so they have an easy escape route should they need one. Importantly, you could pre warn parents that you’d like them to make a swift exit if their little one screams with boredom!
Alternatively, if you’re super laid back and don’t mind this then just go with it.
Your drinks reception is the perfect time to socialise, for both adults and kids alike. Supply plenty of games and activities. Giant garden games are popular and can be played by all ages.
You could consider hiring kids entertainment and if the budget allows a reputable nanny agency to keep the children in line.
I’ve taken a bubble machine along with me before, knowing that the bride and groom were having their two very young kids in their wedding party.
Plan With the Children in Mind.
There’s no point paying for a full meal for the kids. Give them a children’s menu and keep things un fussy.
Believe me, the parents will thank you for it.
On the same note, provide table entertainment to keep them sitting up nicely. Table bubbles are loved by all, you could decorate biscuits or a table mini quiz for everyone to join in.
Expecting kids to stay seated throughout the meal and into the speeches is a big ask. Having an area away from where the speeches are happening for the kids to escape to works well.
Are you worried about how many of your friends have children? It’s ok to limit who you invite. you can happily invite just close family kids. Another suggestion is to stick to kids over the age of 5 for example. After all there’s a lot of kids that might find the day a drag!
Don’t Peak too Soon!
Ensure your little guests are either tucked up, taken home or hidden away watching dvd’s before the hard partying starts!
Drunk wedding guests become children, they don’t mix so well with real children!!!
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To conclude, I love to photograph children at weddings. I’m more than happy for them to be there.
Whether they are up to mischief in a corner, on their very best behaviour or having a screaming melt down, I’ll be there to capture it all!
I have put together a few favourite images of kids at weddings. I hope you enjoy them.x
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